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Parents and Counseling

The counselor at my school told me an interesting story today that I wanted to share with ya'll.  Once a parent wanted her to meet with her child, because his father was dying of terminal cancer.  The little boy lived with the mother and visited the sick father on alternate weekends.  The mother didn't want the little boy to continue to see his father and she told the counselor that the boy was in great distress about seeing his father in that state.  So, the counselor met with the little boy and asked him if he was looking forward to visiting his father that weekend.  The little boy said he was excited and couldn't wait to see his dad.  When the counselor told the mother that she didn't observe any negative feelings on the boy's part, the mother was furious with her.  The counselor was led to believe that the scenario was really about the mother wanting to manipulate the counselor to get what she wanted instead of what the real truth was.  Her lesson to me was to be cautious in believing everything parents say when they want you to meet with their children.  They may just be misguided or they may be trying to manipulate someone or something.  We deal with all types of people.

Legislature

I am currently wondering how the upcoming budget cuts are going to effect all of our current jobs and future jobs as school counselors.  Cuts must be made if there isn't the money to support what we are currently doing.  We all do this in our households, so it makes sense.  Now that I've taken Dr. Summerlin's Ed Law class, I have an understanding of the current laws in our field, so I feel so smart when I read the articles I read about this budget mess we're in.  However, it also has given me an awareness of how vulunerable our jobs are if the cuts are massive, as some predict.  So, when it's all settled, what about the students? Our schools already struggle to meet their education needs, so I can only imagine how cutting programs, materials, and staff is going to affect the kids.  I think the current student to counselor ratio is 500:1.  I wonder if it will stay that way.  If the ratio is bumped up, then counseling jobs will be fewer and students will have less access to the help they need.  Honestly, I've only heard mention of changing the student to teacher ratios in the classrooms, but in my opinion, if they are considering that damage to those on the front lines then I certainly think the school counseling budgets could be slashed too.  Anyhow, I don't mean to worry anyone else more than necessary, but these are the things that I'm wondering about this week.  I'll be glad when the legislature gets it settled so I know what to expect.

Guidance Lessons

One of my favorite things to do with young students is to read books aloud.  I enjoy creating the voices and adding in my own expressions - just making it entertaining.  It makes me so happy that my past students frequently come up to me to remind me about a book I read to them or tell me about something they themselves are reading.  It's cool!  So, as a counselor, I'm excited that I get to continue this traditional of mine, but instead of focusing on inferences, main idea, summary, sequence, and etc, I get to focus on guidance issues like self-esteem or character in my read aloud choices.  I just feel like kids are always interested in those topics, so it makes it fun to do.  Today, I read "Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse" to my classes, and boy did we have a blast.  We made connections between the book and the trait of compassion.  If you've never read that book, please go get it.  It's one of those memorable ones.